Classes


Learn more about STAR Parenting

In-person classes

You can learn more about STAR parenting by:

STAR Basics (7 sessions)

Introduces the four-step problem-solving process for solving problems, the five points of effective parenting, and the fifteen tools.


Elizabeth Crary at easel
discussing STAR Parenting

The first night is an overview, each of the next five nights focuses on one point of the star, and the final night brings everything together and discusses the "dark side of the star."

Parents have a chance to generate ideas, to practice using the tools and to understand why they work. There is optional homework due for each session except the first one. The homework consists of two parts: an observation and an activity and is designed to increase your learning.

Recommenced reading: Love and Limits: Guidance Tools for Creative Parenting. Or, Without Spanking or Spoiling a practical approach to toddler and preschool guidance.

STAR Parenting gave me the skills I needed to parent Kersten, my 3yo. I did my homework, and applying STAR has gotten fun. Now I look for situations. -Robert T.

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STAR Siblings (5 sessions)

Takes a developmental look at children's conflicts. Kids need to learn how to:


Laughter in the classroom

STAR Siblings uses the star points and tools to teach the four basic people skills. There is optional homework due for each session except the first one. The homework consists of two parts: an observation and an activity and is designed to increase your learning.

Recommenced reading: Help the Kids Are at It Again: Using kids quarrels to teach "people" skills.

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STAR Feelings (6 sessions)

Give parents and others skills to help children manage their feelings constructively.

Also addressed how to keep your cool while your kids lose theirs. There is optional homework due for each session except the first one. The homework consists of two parts: an observation and an activity and is designed to increase your learning.

Recommended reading: "Dealing with Disappointment: Helping Kids Cope When Things Don't Go Their Way."

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Mom’s Anger: Using Anger With Grace

Introduces the concept of anger as energy which can be used constructively or destructively. The workshop helps moms understand anger, identify what is really wrong, and decide how to respond constructively. The class will be part information and part “discovery” where the content will result from issues from the group.

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STAR Basics Facilitators

STAR Basics Facilitators is a five-day training which prepares participants to teach the STAR Basics class.


Elizabeth with parents
in Japan

The training includes the STAR Basics class; information about children's developmental stages, temperament, and values; and group dynamics.

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Other Classes

STAR Support/Community

I would like help getting the STAR community started. This would involve as little or as much time as you would like. On June 4, anyone who is interested is invited to come and explore the possibilities.

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Looking at Family Values

It is easier to raise children when you know what you want (value) for them. This workshop will help you identify your values, understand how values are acquired, and discover how the parenting decisions you make impact the values your child learns.

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Understanding Temperament

Learn about the nine inborn temperament traits, how these traits influence a child’s behavior, and how to modify a child’s temperament over time.

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Elizabeth in an Elementary School in Japan